Say No To Drugs
Teach Your Kids To Say No To
Drugs
No matter what you have done in your past, you don’t want
your children to do drugs. Though your habits (if you had any)
may be long behind you, you probably still think about them and
regret some of the things that you did.
Children are very bright, and it is hard at times to tell
them one thing when you have done another. Don’t let that stop
you from having frequent talks with them about how to
say no to drugs
and other things that can hurt them, and that might even
shorten their young lives.
You may feel like a hypocrite telling your child to say no
to drugs when you did them on your own when you were younger.
Just because you did them does not mean that they should, and
they certainly can not use that as an excuse.
However, they are going to be very angry if they learn that
you did them and then lied about it when you were trying to
encourage them to say no to drugs. Be open about things, but
don’t go into a lot of detail. At times, personal experience
with things goes much further than just spewing off advice that
you can hear anywhere.
Most children will have the opportunity to
say no to drugs.
However, what they really say may be up to what you teach them
and tell them. If you say nothing, they may know they are not
the best things in the world, but they are more likely to try
them.
If you have had many talks with them about saying no to
drugs, your voice is going to ring in their minds when they are
offered something for the first time. It may not stop them, but
chances are good that it will. Think about that when you seem
to be chickening out of talking to them about drugs, drinking,
and sex.
What can be hard when you want to tell them to say no to
drugs is knowing what to say and how to say it. If that is the
case for you, don’t let that stop you from talking with them
about it. Instead, find some good resources that can tell you
what to say, when to say it, how often to say it, and how to
word it the right way.
Some things can go in one ear and out the other if they are
said in a vague or unstructured way, so get resources both
online and in your local bookstore that helps you teach your
children to say no to
drugs.
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